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denelian" She loves him and wants to make a gift to him of her physical body"
fucking seriously? this quote is from a review of "Twiligh" (and why can't i stop reading these fucking reviews?). listen, lady, i read those books to. and no, Bella did NOT want to "make a gift of her body" - she WANT TO GET LAID! it is NOT THE SAME FUCKING THING. the first says that girls, women, don't want sex, that they only want to "gift themselves", have sex with a boy, to keep that by around. the second means that they DO want sex, FOR SEX, because women get horny too! we want to have to sex and orgasms! i do NOT "give pete sex" - if anything, Pete gives me sex! really, we HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER.
fuck and of diediediediediedieDIE you stupid person! seriously. i think this is why sex is still used as a weapon against women - because, STILL, society says that women SO NOT WANT SEX. if a woman DOES want sex, then OBVIOUSLY there is something wrong with her and she is a slut. that is what we are told, constantly. that, even if we want sex, we don't really because its just a tool for us to use to control the men in our lives. that we only get "horny" in response to unconscious cues that are telling us if we don't put out our guy is going to leave us.
BUT I DO WANT SEX. not just to keep pete around - if i HAD to have sex to keep pete around, pretty sure i WOULDN'T want to keep pete around, if you know what i mean. i want sex because it is a thing that *I* desire.
argh. no ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
fucking seriously? this quote is from a review of "Twiligh" (and why can't i stop reading these fucking reviews?). listen, lady, i read those books to. and no, Bella did NOT want to "make a gift of her body" - she WANT TO GET LAID! it is NOT THE SAME FUCKING THING. the first says that girls, women, don't want sex, that they only want to "gift themselves", have sex with a boy, to keep that by around. the second means that they DO want sex, FOR SEX, because women get horny too! we want to have to sex and orgasms! i do NOT "give pete sex" - if anything, Pete gives me sex! really, we HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER.
fuck and of diediediediediedieDIE you stupid person! seriously. i think this is why sex is still used as a weapon against women - because, STILL, society says that women SO NOT WANT SEX. if a woman DOES want sex, then OBVIOUSLY there is something wrong with her and she is a slut. that is what we are told, constantly. that, even if we want sex, we don't really because its just a tool for us to use to control the men in our lives. that we only get "horny" in response to unconscious cues that are telling us if we don't put out our guy is going to leave us.
BUT I DO WANT SEX. not just to keep pete around - if i HAD to have sex to keep pete around, pretty sure i WOULDN'T want to keep pete around, if you know what i mean. i want sex because it is a thing that *I* desire.
argh. no ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Date: 2008-12-25 04:52 am (UTC)I think you'll like a lot of her ideas.
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Date: 2008-12-25 05:04 am (UTC)i've read the first half, and am digesting and thinking.
thank you - i needed that. i needed to see SOMETHING that was anti-anti-sex! i don't use a lot of Eastern ideas at the altar, but maybe i should; i know i have friends who keep recommending different easter techniques that they claim will help my leg. (i like Eastern, expecially Indian, mythology, but the practices always seem so, well, CLUNKY if that makes sense). i will definitly be looking for more of her work, and thinking about this article.
thank you again!
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Date: 2008-12-26 03:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-12-26 07:39 am (UTC)argh!
even worse, though is being called a slut just because you ask your boyfriend for sex (although i DID break up with that guy, and for that)
sigh
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Date: 2008-12-26 06:22 pm (UTC)