i reacted kinda badly to this. which is in no way a reflection of you - between assholes on the LKHrants thing and "mens rights activists" who should just fucking call themselves "anti-women's rights activists" attacking me in various forums (because i am trying to help a friend who is in a text-book abusive relationship get out without being killed, and every word of that is literal truth), i'm kinda on a hair trigger. i am taking many things as personal attacks at the moment, when they are just people trying to have the discussion that *I* started. and so i end up taking my frustration (and, i admit, my fear of my friend's husband, who has now threatened to kill *ME* if she leaves him) on you. that's not cool, and i am very sorry.
i owe you an extra-breasty hug. (i mean, i'm monogomous, but i can do hugs :D ) or something. a muffin?
again, i am sorry. i'm pretty sure you won't hold it against me, but i feel that you deserved to know what was really going on, and to know that i am NOT mad at you, or blaming you, and that i am really truly NOT TRYING to take it out on you. i suck sometimes. sorry...